I am sure that no one expects this of me 🙂 How do I address this issue when I meet someone “quality”?As a man, would you expect to learn what you’re “dealing with” or would you rather not be freaked out in advance and learn it in the process? I’m nineteen years old, I know there is a problem with me because I can’t seem to have a long-term relationship with a guy.If one person has a hard time forgiving the other person of his or her past, the relationship is definitely going to suffer.Ephesians 2:8-9 says, "By grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, that no one should boast." When we truly understand what it means to be forgiven, we start seeing how much God loves us, and that helps us forgive other people by extending the same kind of grace." It hurts God deeply when we sin, though sexual sins are especially damaging because not only do they hurt God, they also hurt us and those we love (like potential spouses).Even though God puts our sins as far from us as the east is from the west when we have repented of our sin and put our lives in Christ's hands (Psalm 1), people still have long memories and hold grudges.

I’ve dated a lot, since I never find what I’m looking for, and I always end up giving up on them or if I get rejected I feel like I’m not good enough.That means that we let go of their past, we don't hold it against them, and try to see them as a new creation (2 Corinthians ).Christ died for that person's sin too, and we must to decide if we are willing to accept them as they are, knowing that those sinful memories are a part of them. The question is: Can I forgive others as Christ forgave me?I’ve known guys just as attractive as me who remained virgins into their twenties.Awesome, smart, funny guys, with female friends and a reputation for being amazing.However, I found out very quickly that he is nowhere near me in terms of experience — he is still a virgin.This doesn't make me uncomfortable; what did was how he would ask me questions about my experiences and judge all of my answers in a negative, slut-shaming way.