In our society, in 2015, it is far more popular to go negative and oppose something.Pick a topic, and whatever it is, the loudest voices are speaking against it.Here are 9 ways to get your divorced boyfriend to fall in love with you. Let time pass and let him breathe and get to the future. I find it far more attractive and meaningful when someone actively supports an idea or cause.I also know that a woman that stands firmly for her beliefs will bring a lifetime of positive impact to me and my daughters.When Beth, one of my better researchers, said that men who were averse to commitment were drawn to her like bees to honey, I gave her a copy of the summary report of my research on “why men marry.” The report showed that the primary reason a man asks one woman to marry and not another is that each woman treats him differently.After looking it over for about fifteen minutes, Beth returned the report to my desk and told me I was a male chauvinist. I was fond of Beth and trying to help her, so after I recovered, I asked her what made her think that.

I’m hoping these will be lessons that stick, so if the right person comes along I won’t be too confused to recognize her. Attraction and chemistry are definitely important, but with all the lessons life has thrown my way, I find myself appreciating time with people who stand for something.

First, Beth reviewed the literature and research we had on file.

With this in mind, I reviewed our interviews with men and women who were planning to marry and videos of two focus groups we had run with single men.

He’s not a dating expert, nor an advice columnist, psychologist or relationship therapist.

His expertise lies in the field of market research and he applies his scientific skills to educate women with all they need to know about men.