" Dating a married man could probably stigmatise you with many condemnable titles and may not be an easy experience to endure, for being the 'other woman' entails a lot of sacrifices.If you have convinced yourself that his family would never come to know about it, think again.

From experience, you’ll probably enjoy him more because he belongs to someone else, by the time he becomes yours alone, then you’ll see the mountain of bullshit the wife has had to deal with while you enjoy him sparingly and you don’t want it, do you? Have regard for his mood Because you guys have become steady shag buddies, you feel you’re entitled to talk to him regardless of his mood, that’s the wrong thinking, babe.

If they do, you would have to deal with the guilt of inflicting emotional pain on his spouse and kids, besides hurting yourself.

It's important to consider that there are many people involved in your relationship, than just the two of you.

I’ve been faithful to my husband for 17 years, but I had the urge to feel this rush of adrenaline again, to seduce again…

But I needed to be very discreet, because my family life makes me happy and I didn’t want to change anything to it.