During our first outing he grabbed my leg under the table with one hand and devoured a giant burrito with the other. How long do you think we have to date before I can marry you? " Who cared that the nickname didn't really have much to do with me. But almost as quickly as we were professing our undying love, we were fighting.Mostly he seemed to have a problem with what I considered to be my most basic personality traits. " he complained one day after I screamed curse words at my baseball team from his couch.

How could someone so crazy about me a few months ago find my preference for rap music so crazy now?Content is not intended to replace or serve as substitute for professional consultation or service.Contained observations and opinions should not be misconstrued as specific counseling advice.A client who has been divorce for only a year, recently went on a date with a man only to be disappointment when he said he did not want to see her again, due to her not being over her ex-husband.What do I say and what don’t I say on a date she asked?I took pride on being above all of that romantic mush, but it turned out, I wasn't. From there we quickly, (within a week), started sending sappy text messages, and writing adoring notes.Because when a guy did show up and started telling me about his feelings right away, I was charmed. At first glance, he seemed to fit right in with the sort of guys I normally like. So I was taken by surprise when, a few dates in, he took my hand over Indian food and said, "I think I'm in love. "He's so romantic," I gushed to my friends, "He's already given me a nickname! I found myself swept along, never once questioning it, him, or how I could have found a soul mate in a week and a half.