Fear of abandonment, trying to avoid being single or an over-eagerness to compromise are all natural reactions to not knowing where you stand, but they won't improve your situation.Keeping yourself available to be at a guy's every whimsical beck and call is no way to live.

Girls, often find it sexy if the many pays the bill.Even if a person doesn't know what they want, they can still be ready for a relationship - ultimately, most people go through life with elements of self-doubt or uncertainty as to how their future will pan out. What this doesn't account for is the strain on your emotions in the meantime - while you partner grapples with their own problems, it can leave you wondering why if they can't fully explain or it express it themselves.This might be easy to accept on a rational level, but if you still feel emotionally uncertain this is no comfort. Asking these hard questions and constant cross-interrogation of yourself like this are sure signs that his mixed signals have become a more serious problem.Women and girls have a different point of view of the world and romance in different ways.A lot of dynamic men prefer to be around opinionated and resilient women.Sure, if a man is ambiguous in his interactions with a woman, it could very well mean that he just needs to grow a pair.But it also could be all sorts of other reasons—from being clueless to being too smart for his own good and everything in between. So without further ado, here’s some male perspective on what you might call the crisis of the assertive gentleman.“There's a lot of truth to the statement ‘man up,’” Lewis says.