Lets face it the dating world is rough; you meet fuckboys (or fuckgirls) at every turn, are ‘ghosted’ by people you date and are ‘hyped’ by people who use you to find the one.I have been in the dating game long enough to witness the evolution of dating trends and the difference between when I first started dating and now is quite incredible.

Not only did I work in an industry dominated by women but I also struggled to find guys that A. already had a girlfriend but wanted to have their cake and eat it and C. So I did what any sane person would do and re-joined dating sites, bravely signing myself up to countless dates.When I first started dating, I met my boyfriends through mutual friends, school and after school clubs yet now it seems impossible to find someone outside of the ‘virtual world’.I used to be so against the concept of online dating but moving to London showed me an entirely different ‘dating climate’.I saw the good, the bad and the ugly but one thing I didn’t think I would see was a ‘change of perspective’.I had been so adamant that ‘online dating’ was for people who couldn’t get a boyfriend/girlfriend that I failed to see the bigger picture. Me: Thank u for always getting back to me when I text you, I really appreciate it – btw how is everything with your girlfriend? I know that when I was younger and dating that women always seemed to have guy friends that they talked about. Midtown Boy: I guess what I am saying is that if this guy thinks that you are being pursued by others then he will step up his game. You don’t have to be dating, but you can make him wonder. Midtown Boy: Well, you have to judge for yourself, but if he starts to get the attitude that he is in control then you can do that. Allowed values: [date, rating, relevance, title, videocount, viewcount]" Domain: "global". If a woman is always available then a guy will feel like she has no other interests but him. Midtown Boy: If he thinks that you are so into him that he is in like flint, then he will do as he pleases.