I loved to run and lift weights, and enjoyed the social aspect of exercise, whereas he only exercised to lose weight and even then was very private about it.I knew that I wanted someone that would join me on a run or meet me at the gym."Many men have openly shared with me that they'd love to 'make a marriage right this time.'" Andrea, 47, who met her husband on Christian Mingle.com, experienced this phenomenon first-hand."Our previous marriages and subsequent divorces taught us what's important to fight for and how not to sweat the small stuff," she says.5. "Many marriages fail because men didn't realize that they wanted a woman with certain traits the first time around," says relationship expert April Masini,author of "Now they do, and you benefit from a man who's clear on this."Divorcés' straightforwardness can save you a lot of dating guesswork, adds clinical psychologist Ramani Durvasula, Ph D."They may be more upfront about their limitations and strengths resulting in less game-playing and time wasted in relationships that won't work."6. Consummating a marriage gives divorced guys a leg up on pure bachelors in the bedroom.When you're ready to date, there are ways to get yourself out there again: You don't have to resign yourself to a single life until your kids are old enough to be independent.

) divorcés—to explain the many upsides to seeing a formerly married man.1. As a marriage unravels, "wives are pretty verbal about what they perceive their husbands did wrong," whether it be too much time at the office or being an awful communicator, says marriage and family therapist Rachel Sussman.

Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.

Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.

Lots of people are looking specifically for someone with kids, often because they have kids of their own and would like to meet someone coming from the same place.

Don't hide the fact that you've got children but don't go on and on about them either.