” While it may seem like a polite thing to ask, she isn’t the pizza delivery guy — she’s someone you have romantic feelings for.

Ok Cupid did some great research and found something as simple as “What’s up? We’re all busy people with busy schedules, which means phone calls are almost becoming obsolete and we use fewer and fewer words to get our point across. The only exceptions to this rule are “haha” and “lol”.

The girl you want to write to has probably about ten messages in her inbox that she hasn’t even opened yet. You are definitely not the only one who wants her but with the following tips you are the one who gets her. Okay, it usually starts with setting up your profile, adding a professional photo and writing some interesting stuff about yourself, but I simply assume that you have already done that. You look for a girl you are attracted to and you write her.

Saying the right things to her is important but there is one thing that she will see even before she reads your message.

However, that doesn’t mean what works for colleagues or siblings is what works in dating. And remember, proper punctuation is sexy and shows her that you’re at least somewhat literate.

Listen to Okcupid — the way you text a friend should not be the way you text or message a woman you’re interested in. Yes, we said “Frozen”, the Disney movie that swept the world off its feet.

Besides, when you tell a woman she’s beautiful, chances are you’re not.

A study by Sidekick says the perfect subject line is unique to the recipient and contains 30 characters or less, just to name a few suggestions.

Same goes for the entire message in general — keep it short! If you want to be the most boring, unoriginal person who has ever reached out to this woman, then simply say “Hi, how are you?

To stand out from the crowd you want to be interesting and fun.

Get away form the normal boring questions that every other guys going to ask, or, at a minimum ask those questions in a fun and unique way.