Kate Gosselin‘s “bodyguard” is back in her life and it doesn’t look like he’s going anywhere soon, considering the two are sharing family dinners and family vacations.

Rumors about their alleged romance began swirling soon after Gosselin split from ex-husband Jon, 38, in 2009.PHOTOS: Kate Gosselin’s 21 Monster Mom Moments Gosselin and Neild shared breakfast with the TLC reality star’s eight kids— 14-year-old twins Mady and Cara and 11-year-old sextuplets Aaden, Collin, Joel, Leah, Alexis and Hannah— at the hotel’s restaurant, the onlooker reveals.“Steve was very hands on with the kids,” the eyewitness says. Neild Executive Vice President Steve Neild served with the New Zealand Police Department for 19 years, during which time he lead the special operations section and focused on counter-terrorism and dignitary protection. Here's what we've found on the bodyguard for Kate Gosselin who's rumored to have had an affair with the Jon and Kate Plus 8 star: Here's his profile from prudentrisk.com, a security staffing company: Steve K."I always thought I'd be, like, 54-years-old and marry a 19-year-old or something," he said. "People see your life as episodes and you see it as a date on the calendar. If I go out, people know I go out and photograph it and do everything they gotta do... I can't be Jon, I have to be ' reported on May 5 the story that would make the cover of its latest issue: Jon Gosselin had been having an affair for three months with a grade-school teacher named Deanna Hummel.(Like, for real, he was quoted as saying that.)Kate told the magazine that, even though fame had its drawbacks, she "wouldn't return to those days" before their sextuplets were born. It's the best thing and it's the hardest thing I think that's ever happened, just our show in general," Kate said in the episode. Prior to the tawdry revelation, the had reported that Gosselin was seen kissing a woman who wasn't his wife outside a local hotel.