Wondering if you could share some of your wisdom with me. I have tried to give him as much space as possible but he mentioned last night that he does not feel “free” due to the fact he is not yet divorced. Usually when he has been out of town he says he has missed me…

Things are still going okay, but there has been a bit of a change in Mr. The challenge I am having is that he is pulling back. but he just came back from a 10 day trip and said nothing.

This is where I believe the book is most powerful – that and learning what it takes to keep a man interested.

What he calls “selfish love”, Carter says women fall into a form of vanity believing a man wants the same as she.

he one undeniable fact about what I give to you as often as I can is that, if you look deep enough, if you really study my words and ramblings, if you take note and pay attention there’s no doubt you’ll find a piece of Christian in practically everything I write.

So if you like what I give, how I give it, and if it remains real in your life, then you should have no reservations or hesitation that his flagship Ebook, which I now believe is in its 3rd edition, will not only answer lots of your question in full detail but can also offer SOLUTIONS beyond any ordinary free advice often copied and pasted everywhere.

you have to work for it with your time and your money AND you must be willing to open your mind to allow fresh new ideas inside.

Like most women reading this, you want a real man; not a childish boy.

The fact is we are only 3 months into this, so it is still new, but I have to admit I was hoping he’d do something special for Valentine’s Day! I want to be “the Cool Girl” that Christian Carter talks about, but I feel I’m not doing a very good job. trying to stay light and humorous in our conversations…acting like everything is fine on my end. I have let him know if he wants to talk I am willing to listen, etc.

Although this past week I did ask a few times “Hey what’s up? One of thing things I have fought is whether I should be with him. Obviously he is not in that position and will not be for a while.

I am feeling the “clock ticking” a bit and have wondered would I go find someone else who is more on the same page.

Then I say “Well, Sarah, start with anyone else and you will still be investing a year before you get to marriage and there is no guarantee with a new man either.” So I come back to taking that risk with James because he really is a great guy.